
During sexual arousal, a woman’s vagina typically becomes lubricated, making it wetter and ready for sex. Many women find that lubrication makes sex more comfortable or enjoyable because it reduces friction and irritation.
However, sometimes women experience vaginal dryness. The vagina does not lubricate enough, leading to pain or discomfort. This can happen when estrogen levels drop during menopause. Vaginal dryness can also occur when a woman is breastfeeding, undergoing chemotherapy, or when she has been treated for breast cancer.
Sometimes, women just prefer more lubrication than their bodies provide.
In these circumstances, a lubricant can help. A lubricant is a liquid or gel that women and their partners can apply during sex to make the vulva, vagina, or anal area wetter. Lubricant can also be applied to a man’s penis or a sex toy to make them more slippery.
There are several types of lubricants, each with advantages and disadvantages.
Petroleum-based lubricants, such as those made from petroleum jelly, mineral oil, or baby oil, cause irritation or inflammation for some women.
Choosing a lubricant is a personal decision. Couples can try different types to see what works best for them. If a particular lubricant causes irritation or an allergic reaction, the couple should stop using it and try another kind. A doctor or sex therapist can provide guidance, if needed.

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